One of the mindset exercises that I recommend in the 30-Day Weight Loss Mindset Challenge is to write a letter to your body. You can read my letter to my slim and healthy body below. I wrote this right at the beginning of my own weight loss journey and then a further letter I wrote a few months later.
This is a super powerful exercise to build a positive and supportive relationship with your body.
At the end of this post, I’ve included a lovely guided visualization to further help you on a successful weight loss journey. Plus information about how to get more support from me.
Here’s my first letter…
DEAR BODY,
Iām writing to you to let you know that I’ve made a decision to lose weight, I’m sorry for allowing myself to put on all of this weight. I’m sorry that I’ve neglected you so much over the past 13 years (and more). I know that you’re pretty awesome and I know exactly what I need to be slim and healthy, buy what I forgot to do was listen to you. Instead, I ate to make myself feel better, to stop myself from being bored, from being sad and lonely. I’ve been eating to fill an emotional gap, because the food was there. Then it just became a mindless habit. To top it all, I didn’t move my body which I know you need much more of. I’m sorry. I’m going to do my best now to listen to what you need.
Most of all I’m so sorry for all the horrible things I said about you. I do know how amazing you are.
Now, I’d like to ask for your help in losing this excess weight. I know that I’m supposed to be naturally slim and healthy.
I want to be slim and healthy, eat a healthy diet based on listening to you, my body and get lots of natural exercise.
I intend to say nice things about you, my body now to cherish you and love you starting right now, right this very second.
I also want you to know that it’s safe to let go of this excess weight now, Life is good and it’s a good thing to go back to my natural slim an dhealthy state.
Thank you body for the amazing things you do every second of every day without me needing to ask you.
Lots of love, Wendy xx
This was an important letter, that served to clear out the old and allow for new positive changes.
Weight loss mindset progress – Letter number 2
Today I want to share another letter I wrote to my body about 6 months later. It’s about what I feel is a positive and natural weight loss journey.
Dear body,
I want to say thank you for supporting me and helping me on this weight loss journey. I know you’re feeling better now as we lose this excess weight and become fitter and healthier.
I know I still eat a few too many chocolate bars, I hope you’re okay with that as I’m making a big effort to also feed you lovely nourishing foods and drink lots of water.
I hope you’re enjoying our walks and some of my crazy exercise routines š
I love that you’re slimming down now and looking more and more toned.
My clothes are feeling even looser and my black trousers especially are going to have to go in the charity bag soon.
I’m looking forward to having new smaller sized clothes to wear.
Please know It’s a good journey and a wonderful journey.
Thanks you for being awesome. I love you.
Wendy xx
These letters continue to play an important part in my own weight loss journey. I hope that by sharing a couple of my letters it helps you on your weight loss journey.
30-Day Weight Loss Mindset Challenge
If you’d like more mindset exercises, check out my 30-Day Mindset Challenge for Weight Loss It’s free here on the blog and there’s also a printable version available if that’s what you prefer – That’s available on my ETSY SHOP.
Guided weight loss visualization
I also mentioned that I had a lovely guided visualization to share with you. I hope you find this relaxing and powerful.
Visit my ETSY SHOP
I have created some wonderful printable downloads to support you in improving your health and weight loss. There are also many other printables to help you feel great and create a life you love. Visit my ETSY SHOP
Private Coaching with me
I am not a weight loss coach or a health expert or anything like that but I can help you create a super positive mindset around weight loss and healthier living. together, we’ll focus on mindset, the law of attraction and EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques).
You’ll learn how to release old blocks and low emotions connected to weight and your ability to achieve your ideal weight goals. Find out how I can support you on your weight loss journey Weight Loss Mindset Coaching

Barbara franken says
i love these letters… They remind me of the letter I wrote to myself when I gave up smoking… The cigarette was my best friend and it was a goodbye that strengthened my confiction to live without it and be ok… Barbara x
Wendy Tomlinson says
That’s wonderful Barbara. Yes, it is letting our body know it’s okay
Shan says
What a good idea! Love the second letter š
Wendy Tomlinson says
Thanks Shan, I feel there may be more to come. xx
Haroldine Carrow-Faggiolio says
Since my transgender surgery, I’ve been able to lose weight and feel positive about my transformation! Thanks!!
Wendy says
That is good to hear.