The law of attraction is said to be a Universal law, always working in all areas of your life whether you know it or not.
There are many people who will try to prove it works and I’m sure if you are a science person, you’d be able to explain it way better than myself.
What I say to you is this. I cannot prove to you that the law of attraction works, I can only tell you that it has helped me to completely change my life.
I will also tell you that there are many people who have truly successful lives who know absolutely nothing about the law of attraction. But here’s the thing.
A baby has never been taught about gravity but gravity is constantly working anyway.
Instead of trying to make yourself believe in the law of attraction, try being open to the possibility that you can change your life using some of the law of attraction techniques I share such as affirmations, EFT, focusing on what you want, visualizing…
In my opinion, if you believe the law of attraction works, it will. If you believe the law of attraction is a load of nonsense and doesn’t work, it won’t – That’s IS actually the law of attraction working.
In this post I want to share some practical ideas that are easy to apply. No chanting at the moon or secret rituals here.
How can I make myself believe in the law of attraction?
What you can do is work on shifting your beliefs so that they support the idea that the law of attraction can work for you.
If your belief is… The law of attraction doesn’t work, shift it a little... Maybe it’s possible that the law of attraction is real and can work for me.
There’s a lot of information online about the law of attraction. In my experience I find some people make it super complicated, often so they can make a lot of money through teaching it, others make it seem like something you do only if you’re completely woo-woo.
There’s a lot of really useful information out there too but it can get confusing.
It’s my hope that I can give you common sense guidance to help you effectively use the law of attraction in your own life.
Think Of The Law Of Attraction As A Powerful Helping hand
I would encourage you to think of the law of attraction as a really, really powerful helping hand and not a magic wand kind of thing.
Instead of focusing on the law of attraction, focus on creating a wonderful life for yourself.
I find when people focus on using the law of attraction and the UNIVERSE doing all the work, things can go wrong or nothing happens.
Get on with creating a great life for yourself. You make that happen and if the law of attraction helps you out that’s a bonus. I find this is a powerful attitude to have.
Give it time
I have definitely had times when I’ve thought of something I wanted and it’s come into my life really quickly but most of the time that’s not been the case.
I was well into my 30’s by the time I even heard about the law fo attraction. That meant, I had a whole load of beliefs.
Some of those beliefs were helpful, but I quickly realized that I had so many limiting beliefs that would never allow me to create the life I wanted.
Over the years I’ve worked on all kinds of limiting beliefs and I’ve been able to build new beliefs and create a life I absolutely love.
Is my life perfect? NO. Do I have everything I want, NO, not yet? Can I manifest anything at the drop of a hat? NO.
I’m not about selling you a story that the all you have to do is imagine what you want and the law of attraction will make it happen.
I’m not even sure that would be a wonderful as it sounds anyway.
I can tell you that if I had some instant manifest wand this would not have been good news for me.
What I’ve found is that as I work on my beliefs, I see more and more of the things I want coming into my life and that’s a good feeling.
Easy to apply Law of Attraction Tips
I’m a qualified Law of Attraction Practitioner and I’ve been helping people to effectively use the law of attraction for over 10 years.
Over that time many people have told me that the way I explain the law of attraction really helps them make sense of it. I hope I can do the same for you.
Even if you’ve already learned a lot about the law of attraction, I would really encourage you to read my HOW TO USE THE LAW OF ATTRACTION GUIDE and also watch my 5-PART LAW OF ATTRACTION VIDEO SERIES.
You’ll learn so much and I give you clear advice to apply what you learn in your own life.
Another great post to read is the LAW OF ATTRACTION KEY POINTS
Believe in the law of attraction affirmations
Affirmations are positive statements. If someone keeps saying mean, unhelpful things to you, you’ll more than likely start to feel down and not want to spend time around that person.
Yet, we often say really horrible, really unhelpful things to ourselves. Much worse than anything we would ever say to other people.
Imagine if you deliberately filled your mind with powerful thoughts that support you in creating a life you want.
Support you in becoming the person you want to be? I can tell you it’s a good feeling. Affirmations can help you to do this.
Affirmations like…
- I can do this
- I am enough
- I am worthy
- I do deserve this…
And here are some good affirmations to help you shift your beliefs about the law of attraction…
- I’m open to the idea that the law of attraction can work for me
- I’m willing to believe that the law of attraction is real
- I am willing to try new things to improve my life
Fill your mind throughout the day, every day with positive messages that support you, empower you and uplift you.
Check out my AFFIRMATIONS GUIDE and 130+ AFFIRMATION EXAMPLES
Emotional Freedom Techniques – EFT to believe in the law of attraction
EFT stands for Emotional Freedom Techniques. You tap on special meridian points (EFT POINTS). If you’ve never tried EFT before, check out my EFT GUIDE here on the blog. It’s super easy to learn and use in your own life.
Here’s a script to help you release limiting beliefs and be open to the law of attraction working for you to create the life you want.
- Set up – Tapping the side of the hand – I’m tapping to release all limiting beliefs about the law of attraction and I’m willing to be open to the law of attraction working to help me create the life I want
- Top of the head – I release all limiting beliefs about the law of attraction
- Forehead – I’m open to the law of attraction working for me to help create the life I want
- Eyebrow – I release all limiting beliefs about the law of attraction
- Side of the eye – I’m open to the law of attraction working for me to help me create the life I want
- Under the eye – I release all limiting beliefs about the law of attraction
- Under the nose – I’m open to the law of attraction working for me to help me create the life I want
- Under the mouth – I release all limiting beliefs about the law of attraction
- Collarbone – I’m open to the law of attraction working for me to help me create the life I want
- Under the arm – I release all limiting beliefs about the law of attraction
- Side of the hand – I’m open to the law of attraction working for me to help me create the life I want
EFT also works really well with affirmations. Have a read of my EFT AND AFFIRMATIONS GUIDE for more tips.
Also, check out my EFT VIDEO TO TRUST THE UNIVERSE where you can follow along with an EFT session with me.
Visualize what you want
Visualizing is so powerful. I’m sure you’ve heard top sports people say that they had visualized themselves winning before they did.
This same technique can be applied to all areas of your life. Create images, a mind-movie of the things you want to attract as if you already have them.
This is like daydreaming with a purpose.
The more you can visualize your life as you want it, the easier it is to make that picture your reality because your subconscious mind sees it as already true.
Use GOAL SETTING to FOCUS on what you want
A big thing with the law of attraction is that you get what you focus your attention on.
Instead of focusing on the law of attraction drawing what you want into your life, try focusing on your goals, creating an action plan, and taking consistent action.
I can’t get the law of attraction to work for me
If you can’t get the law of attraction to work for you but you do believe in it, try these tips…
- Get clear about what you want to attract
- Raise your vibrations
- Clear limiting beliefs
- Be consistent
- Work on being a match for what you want
Read Why can’t I get the law of attraction to work for me? for how to do these things.
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Coach Wendy – Wendy Tomlinson Coaching
Lincolnshire, UK
Mindset Coach – Life Skills Coach – EFT Master Practitioner – Law of Attraction Practitioner
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