Today I have 5 powerful law of attraction tips to share with you to really help you to attract the life you want.
Did you know that the law of attraction is constantly working in all areas of your life? There’s no switch on and off. It’s always on.
So, it makes sense to me to deliberately use this power to help you create a life you love.
Before you start reading, I encourage you to really apply what you learn in this post to your own life.
Reading this post will change very little but when you apply these tips you’ll make super positive changes and set yourself up to attract the life you want. Enjoy.
You can read my full HOW TO USE THE LAW OF ATTRACTION GUIDE right here on the blog too. I always want to give you ideas to help you use this incredible power that is always working easy for you to use in your own life. To help you create a life you absolutely love
1. Create a law of attraction lifestyle
The first of my law of attraction tips is to create a law of attraction lifestyle for yourself.
Because the law of attraction is always working, I think it’s important to create a law of attraction lifestyle for yourself so that as you go about your daily life, you are naturally attracting things you want into your life.
So rather than focusing on it for just a short time every now and then or even every day, I encourage you to ask this question…
Q. How can I be more of a match for the life I want?
Keep asking yourself this question throughout the day for the next few weeks so that you start to build a habit and create that law of attraction lifestyle.
2. Do things you enjoy – Often
The law of attraction can only draw to you that which you are a vibrational match for. Imagine for a moment if you were to throw a pebble into a big pond.
The ripples would spread out across the pond. If your vibrations are positive, you are sending those positive vibrations out into the world in the same way.
This is powerful. The way to monitor your vibrations is by the way you feel.
When you are enjoying what you are doing then you are raising your vibrations naturally, so fill your life with as many things that you enjoy as possible.
Now, most of us do have to do things in the day that we don’t like. Always try to link those things that you don’t like with something you do like.
For example, I hate hoovering but I do love a nice clean home and I do enjoy listening to my favourite songs, so I pop my music on and get hoovering.
Try making a list of all the things you enjoy doing, from really small things like looking at the flowers in your garden to really big things like going on holiday.
You can also keep a journal where every day you write down some things that you enjoyed about the day. You can also just spend some time at the end of each day thinking about the things you’ve enjoyed.
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3. Have an ongoing conversation with the Universe
The Universe is always listening or rather always paying attention. Get into the habit of having an ongoing conversation with the Universe – When something shows up in your life that you like, let the Universe know, Yes, I like this, more please, thank you.
If something shows up in your life that you don’t like, let the Universe know and state clearly what you want instead.
Here’s my power question, I encourage you to use this whenever anything shows up that you don’t want – If I Don’t Want This, What Do I Want?
Hey Universe, I don’t want this but what I do want is…
By doing this you shift your emotions to what you want and you begin putting out different vibrations.
Also, check-in with yourself and see if you can work out why something is showing up for you. Are you focusing on what you don’t want in any way?
4. Go easy on yourself – You don’t have to be perfect
As a law of attraction practitioner, one of the things people talk to me about on a regular basis is the idea that you have to be super positive all the time and people get really frustrated when they can’t manage that level of positivity.
Seriously, I don’t know anyone that’s super positive all the time, I’m definitely not and that’s okay.
Many of us learn about the law of attraction in adulthood, so even if we learn about it at age 18, we’ve already had 18 years where we’ve built up all kinds of beliefs – some will be positive and some will not be helpful for you in attracting the life you want.
You’re not going to learn about the law of attraction and suddenly be able to be a perfect match for everything in life that you want. At least, I have never experienced that or seen it personally in others.
For most people, it’s a gradual journey where you become more and more of a match for the things you want over time. And also, what we actually want will often change over time.
So, go easy on yourself and take one step at a time. These law of attraction tips will definitely help and give you plenty to think about and apply in your life.
5. Notice the things that show up
Keep paying attention to what’s showing up in your day-to-day life. Remember to keep having that ongoing conversation with the Universe.
When something you really like shows up in your life I want you to ANCHOR the moment – Fix it in your mind. For example, I really love this feeling, I love having… I love hearing… What is it that you specifically like?
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When you ANCHOR a boat, it keeps the boat more or less in that position. That’s what you want to do whenever you like something. You want the Universe to keep you with that feeling of really liking where you are.
Take the time to anchor that picture, feeling…
The law of attraction responds to your thoughts, feelings, beliefs, the things you say and the things you do.
When something is showing up in your life that you don’t want, take some time to check whether you are a match for that thing and how you can change that.
A personal example of improving what you are a match for
Here’s an example, several years ago I had pretty much no money, my life had just been turned upside down and I went through a spell of so many things going wrong with the car I had at that time.
I can remember feeling so completely hopeless. I was getting myself into more and more debt. Every single time I thought about my financial situation I panicked and every time I thought about my car, I hated it.
Whilst it was difficult, I knew that I must change these feelings. I worked on changing my thinking and my beliefs.
To do this I used affirmations to keep my thoughts positive and EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) to help shift limiting beliefs and emotions that can block you from creating a life you want.
I encourage you to read How to Use Affirmations and my Emotional Freedom Techniques guide. Both are free here on the blog.
I was able to get myself to a place where I felt neutral (okay) about my car and my financial situation.
That gave me the breathing space I needed. From there I was able to focus on improving the situation without all the stress thinking. I was able to change what I was a match for.
Remember that the law of attraction can only give you what you’re a match for.
Sometimes I have no answers
I really love being able to share these tips to help you use the law of attraction with you and help you to use this truly amazing power to create a life you really love.
I talk a lot about being a match for what you want. Now, in my experience, most of the time, we do play a huge part in what shows up in our life.
As a law of attraction practitioner, I have been asked many times about situations that we would never, ever wish for.
There are no obvious signs that we are doing anything in our life that could mean that we are a match for those things.
Sometimes, I just don’t have the answers. There are some things that show up in people’s lives that I can’t explain.
I also think that sometimes people overthink the law of attraction, they almost analyze every tiny thing that shows up and it becomes a cause of great anxiety.
This will only serve to attract more things you don’t want in your life. For example, I’ve been asked why did it rain on my wedding day when I had been focusing on a lovely sunny day? I’d say overthinking things in this situation.
My final law of attraction tip for you is to focus on the things you do want, the outcomes you do want and if something does show up that you don’t want, ask that power question – If I don’t want this, what do I want?
Law of Attraction Tips – A Recap
- Work on creating a law of attraction lifestyle
- Do things you enjoy – often
- Have an ongoing conversation with the Universe
- Go easy on yourself
- Notice the things that show up
I’m building up a wonderful collection of law of attraction posts here on the blog. Please have a read of them.
Use these law of attraction tips as a starting point and please do ask if you have any questions.
Wendy
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Wendy is a certified Law of Attraction Practitioner, EFT Master Practitioner, Life Skills Coach and Energy Healer for Animals. Please feel free to ask if you have any questions.
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