Today I want to share three amazing law of attraction questions that will really help you to use this power effectively to manifest the life you want.
Here are your 3 Law of Attraction questions to ask yourself – This will help you create the life you want.
- What do I want to attract into my life?
- If I don’t want this, what do I want? (for when things show up that you don’t want)
- what can I do to raise my vibrations?
The power of questions
Questions are incredibly powerful and they can work for you or against you. An example of a question working against you is “Why am I so stupid?” If you say this to yourself, you are AFFIRMING that you are STUPID.
If you say to a child, “Why don’t you ever tidy up after yourself?” You are simply telling that child that they are someone who doesn’t tidy up after themselves.” Neither of these questions are helpful.
An AFFORMATION is a question where you ask a positive question that supports you in attracting the life you want.
For example, “Why can I always work out what to do?” or “Why do I always achieve my goals?”
These questions say “I’m someone who can work out what to do” and “I always achieve my goals.” These are really powerful messages for your subconscious mind and the message you send out into the universe.

Law of Attraction Guide
I’d really encourage you to read my LAW OF ATTRACTION GUIDE here on the blog so that you’re really becoming a match for the life you want.
The important thing to note is that the law of attraction responds to your thoughts, feelings, beliefs, the things you say and the things you do.
The law of attraction can only give you what you’re a vibrational match for – Wanted or not.
The law of attraction gives you what you focus your attention on – Wanted or not.
I talk all about these things in more detail in the Law of Attraction guide, so it’s well worth having a read.
Let’s take a look at my 3 power law of attraction questions.

1. What do I want to attract into my life?
This is so important. So many people never actually ask this question. I recommend you ask this question regularly.
This can be “What do I want to attract into my life over the next year? 5 years?” or it can be “What do I want to attract into my life today?”
I want you to get into the habit of asking and confirming what you want. Don’t leave it up to the Universe to guess. Put your focus on what you want.

2. If I don’t want this, what do I want?
Whenever anything shows up in your life that you don’t want or don’t like, simply ask yourself “If I don’t want this, what do I want?”
I love this question so much. Really, most of us are pretty good at noticing the things we don’t want, so use this to get clarity about what it is you do want.
You can also use this question with other people who are complaining about something they don’t like.
You can say “Oh, so, if you don’t want that, what would you like instead?” Just don’t be surprised if they have no idea. Help them out if you can. It’s usually the opposite of what they don’t want.
Here are a few examples…
- I don’t want to have to drive an hour to work each day. I want to have a job that I can walk to within 20 minutes.
- I don’t want the house to be a mess all the time – I want the house to be tidy
- I don’t want to be in debt – I want to be really good at managing my money and saving
- I don’t want to feel stressed – I want to feel calm and relaxed
You really can use this question with anything you don’t want. Give it a try and focus on those things you do want.

3. What can I do to raise my vibrations?
As I said at the start of this post, the law of attraction can only give you that which you’re a vibrational match for. So you want to work on raising your vibrations (feeling positive) whenever you can.
I encourage you to read 30 ways to raise your vibrations and Happy Vibes all the way. (both on the blog)
Search for better feeling thoughts, better and more supportive beliefs. Make sure your words and actions make you feel positive and aligned with what you want in life.
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More Recommended Reading
- Create a Law of Attraction Lifestyle
- My thoughts on the law of attraction movie “The Secret”
- How to attract a more joyful life
- Law of attraction parenting series
- Is the law of attraction positive thinking?
Thanks for joining me today. I encourage you to use these law of attraction questions regularly in your own life. They really are incredibly powerful.
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