I’ve used affirmations to help change my life. They helped me to go from a life I really wasn’t happy with and not liking myself very much, to loving myself and loving my life. I’d say that was a success.
How do you change your life using affirmations? You fill your mind with messages that support you in creating the life you want. This helps to shift your focus, beliefs and energy needed to make positive changes.
I’m going to share some affirmations that have really helped me to change my life and I think these would be powerful for most people. I’m also going to tell you how to make your affirmations specific to the life you want to create.
5 Life-Changing Affirmations
- All is well in my world
- Every day in every way my life gets better and better
- I love myself
- I am enough
- I can do this!
These 5 affirmations are incredibly powerful for every single person but let me explain why they have been so important to me. I believe when you have something behind an affirmation that makes it so much more powerful.
All is well in my world
When I first started using this affirmation, my life felt like it was completely falling apart. It was a very emotional time as my dad had died recently, and my marriage had ended. I didn’t like my life and I didn’t like myself very much either. Don’t get me wrong, I wasn’t some awful person or anything like that but I was a million miles away from the person I wanted to be.
Repeating All is well in my life at this time helped me to believe that a time was coming where ALL really was well in my life.
If I had a particularly bad day, I would sit myself down, focus on what I did have that was good in my life and I would say, right here, right now at this moment, all is well in my world.
As my life started to improve the feeling behind this affirmations began to change. It was more of a confirmation that Yes, everything is well in my world. I’m doing okay.
Now, as I write this blog post, I can honestly say that I love my life. It’s not perfect but I’ve created a life I really love and I love how I show up in my life every day. Now when I repeat this affirmation, It’s very much confirming my life is wonderful.
Every day in every way my life gets better and better
I love this affirmation so much. When I started using it, I really needed my life to get better. Now I love my life, it’s my message to Universe saying, Yes, I notice that my life is getting even better all the time. In law of attraction terms, this is super important.
When something wonderful happens in my life, I’ll say my affirmation – Every day in every way my life gets better and better. Every time I move even a tiny bit closer to my ideal life, I say Every day in every way my life gets better and better. It’s so incredibly powerful.
I love myself
As I’ve already said, there was a time when I didn’t even like myself, so I knew that this was something I really needed to work on.
I used to watch loads of Louise Hay videos during that time when I was really struggling and she recommended mirror work. So, I made a decision that every single time I went in a room with a mirror I would stand in front of it and say “I LOVE YOU” to myself, looking myself in the eye.
I’d stand in my bathroom several times a day and out loud repeat “I love you, I really love you.”
Sometimes it was really hard for me to do, but gradually it got easier and easier and gradually it become true.
Loving yourself is the most important thing. Your life really will change when you can do this. If this is an area you struggle with, I’d love you to check out my Learn To Love Yourself Challenge on my other blog.
When you don’t like yourself, your emotions are low vibrating and it’s really hard to attract into your life the things you want. When you put your attention on loving yourself, you raise your vibrations and naturally start to attract more and more of the things you want into your life.
I am enough
Again, I’ve used this affirmation since those days when my life really wasn’t what I wanted. My self-esteem was super low. I always found this affirmation powerful but in more recent years I’ve come across the amazing Marisa Peer who really taught me the power of I AM ENOUGH.
Check out her I AM ENOUGH Mediation on YouTube. I find it really powerful.
During my years of coaching, I realized that so many people have that belief that they’re not enough in some way. I definitely had it. Changing this belief will completely change your life.
I can do this!
I think this is probably one of the simplest yet most powerful affirmations ever! How many times do we say I can’t do that? I still catch myself saying it from time to time, but now, I say I can do this! Occasionally it’s If I can’t do it right now, I can learn.
For example, when I decided to stop coaching privately, to become a full-time blogger, I knew I needed to learn SEO (search engine optimization – How to rank well on Google, etc). Every time I tried, I felt totally overwhelmed and I felt like everyone was speaking a different language. But I kept saying I can do this, I can learn. And that’s what I did. I’m still learning and still getting better and better at it.
I can do this! is empowering. It helps you to believe that your ideal life is possible that you can achieve your goals in life.
That’s all my special life-changing affirmations and that leads me on nicely to the next thing I want to talk to you about – Using affirmations to help you with specific parts of your life – Achieving your goals.
How to use affirmations to achieve your life goals
If you really want to change your life, I strongly recommend setting yourself goals. I want to guide you on how to do this effectively. Here are some important guides to help.
- Read How To Balance And Improve All Areas Of Life – In this post, you’ll focus on what’s really important to you in 8 key areas of your life. (BLOG POST)
- DOWNLOAD my Life Balance And Improvement Workbook. Getting clear about what’s important to you personally is so incredibly important and so many people spend years of their life, sometimes all of their life working toward a life they actually don’t want. I don’t want this for you.
- You may also want to Download my SIMPLICITY GOAL SETTING WORKBOOK
- Now you’ve got your goals written down and your plan of action – Create affirmations to support you in achieving your goals
EXAMPLES OF AFFIRMATION TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS
- Goal – To have a 6-figure business
- Affirmation – I have a 6-figure business
- Affirmation – I’m loving running my 6-figure business
- Affirmation – My business is a huge success
- Goal – To have a £50,000 deposit for a house
- Affirmation – Saving for my house is easy
- Affirmation – My savings for my house deposit are rapidly growing
- Affirmation – I easily attract extra money to put toward my house fund
- Affirmation – I’m loving living in my new home
- Goal – To be healthy and slim
- Affirmation – I’m slim and healthy
- Affirmation – I now make positive and healthy choices for myself
- Affirmation – I live a healthy lifestyle
Law of Attraction and Life-Changing Affirmations
I’ve written a lot about the law of attraction on the blog, so I’m not going to go into depth here. But what I do what you to understand is that the law of attraction is ALWAYS working in your life whether you’re aware of it or not.
The law of attraction responds to your thoughts, feelings beliefs, the things you say and the things you do.
AFFIRMATIONS will definitely help with your thoughts, feelings, beliefs and the things you say. Your goal setting will help with the things you do.
Fill your mind with your positive affirmations to help shape your life. The life you want for yourself. Aim to create a law of attraction lifestyle for yourself starting today.
Keep filling your mind with affirmations that support you in changing your life
Whatever affirmations you choose, keep filling your mind with positive messages that support you in changing your life for the better. For more tips to make the most of your affirmations, read my How to use affirmations guide
And here are some more affirmations you might find helpful…
- AFFIRMATIONS AND EFT – The Power Combo
- Affirmations to attract what you want
- Gratitude Affirmations
- Why I Am Affirmations Are So Powerful
There are loads more affirmation posts on the blog, just have a look around.
I hope you’ve found this post really helpful. I’d love you to support this blog by sharing it wherever you can – Thanks – Wendy
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