The law of attraction works for every single person. Think of it in the same way that gravity is always working. You can’t see it but it’s always there. No one has more or less power when it comes to this Universal power.
What is different is how we use this power and most people don’t know how to make the most of the law of attraction, so they don’t manifest the things they want.
In this post, I’m going to explain why some people seem to be able to manifest anything they want whilst others don’t seem to be able to manifest anything they want.
I’ll also talk briefly about the law of attraction and children and give you some quick tips to help you effectively use the law of attraction to manifest what you want
Why do some people seems to manifest what they want with ease?
Whilst there are definitely people who seem to be able to manifest anything they want with ease and have created a really successful life for themselves, the law of attraction isn’t working more for them, they just know how to use this power well.
For example, if you’ve grown up with beliefs that it’s hard to make money, money makes people mean, people like you don’t get rich… Then it will be much harder for you to manifest success financially over someone who has grown up believing it’s easy to make money, there’s always more money, there’s an abundance of money…
The beliefs people have grown up with can be really deep-rooted. In law of attraction terms, at any moment, you are either ALLOWING the things you want or resisting them. Some people are simply better at allowing what they want.
I’ve got some tips to help you ALLOW below.
Why can’t I get the law of attraction to work for me?
Even though it may not feel like it, the law of attraction is working in your life right now and all the time. There’s no switch off.
There are some key reasons why you feel like you can’t get the law of attraction to work to give you what you want.
- You’re not focusing on what you want – Most people are really good at focusing on what they don’t want, so you’ll need to make a deliberate shift
- You have limiting beliefs that block the things you want – Imagine what you want is already there for you, you just need to remove blocks between you and that thing you want
- You’re not clear about what you want and you send mixed messages – The Universe likes you to be super clear about what you want
- You’re not a vibrational match for the things you want (you have low emotions) – I’ve got some key tips below to help you be a match for what you want
Read more about why you can’t get the law of attraction to work for you.
Does the law of attraction work for children?
Yes, the law of attraction works really well for children. They need parents and adults to keep their limiting beliefs to themselves and they haven’t formed strong beliefs to block the law of attraction from giving them what they want.
Check out my Law of attraction parenting series
Law of attraction tips to manifest what you want
Now that you know the law of attraction is already working for you, I want to give you some key tips to help you effectively use the law of attraction to manifest the life you want and the things you want.
Focus on what you want
You must put your focus on what you want and you need to also pay attention to your feelings as you focus.
You want to be focusing on what you want from a place of totally expecting it to show up. Here’s an example of what I mean…
When you book a holiday, you totally expect you’ll actually go on the holiday, maybe you’ll talk to friends about your upcoming holiday and think about what you want to do whilst on that holiday. You’ll probably spend a fair bit of time thinking about it and looking forward to it.
This is the way you want to focus on the things you’re trying to manifest into your life.
Another way is to focus on what you want from a place of knowing it’s already on it’s way to you. So you want that feeling of I already have this.
How to be a match for what you want
The law of attraction CAN ONLY give you that which you’re a vibrational match for, so you must learn how to be a match for what you want.
When I talk about raising your vibrations I simply mean improving your emotions (the way you feel). Here’s a lovely post to help raise your vibrations – 30 ways to raise your vibrations.
The law of attraction responds to your thoughts, feelings, beliefs, the things you say and the things you do. Let’s take a look at each of those…
Thoughts
I love this Mike Dooley Quote – Thoughts Become Things.
I really want you to keep this in mind as you work on creating a positive law of attraction lifestyle.
Pay attention to your self-talk – that mind chatter that we all have. Is it supporting you or blocking you?
Affirmations are a great way to deliberately focus on positive messages. Affirmations such as I easily attract the things I want, can be incredibly powerful.
Take a look at my AFFIRMATIONS GUIDE and I have a huge collection of affirmation posts with ideas for affirmations in all sorts of different areas. Here are a few…
- Affirmations to change your life
- Affirmations to attract what you want
- Affirmations for prosperity
- Success Affirmations – Fill your mind with thoughts that support you
- Happiness affirmations – Time to get happy
Take every opportunity to fill your mind with positive messages that support you and help you to be a match for the life you want.
Feelings
It really is your feelings that are most important. Moving forward, know that the way you feel really does impact what you are able to manifest in your life. Aim for those really positive feelings such as joy, happiness, love, empowerment, gratitude, laughter…
Look at how you can raise your vibrations and when you recognize that you are experiencing low emotions, try to move to a BETTER FEELING EMOTION.
EFT – Emotional Freedom Techniques (sometimes called tapping) is a fantastic way to help release low emotions and build up positive (high vibrating) emotions.
I have a full EFT GUIDE to teach you quickly how to use this technique – It’s super easy and you can use it for so many things.
Here are some of my EFT scripts here on the blog…
- EFT for when you’re feeling fed up
- EFT for when you’re feeling frustrated
- 4 Techniques To Release Anger
- EFT for Fear – Emotional Freedom Techniques
- EFT for Anxiety
- Reduce Stress with EFT – Emotional Freedom Techniques
There are so many more, so do have a good look around the blog.
Beliefs
As I’ve already touched on, your beliefs can really block you from creating the life you want. We all collect all kinds of beliefs throughout our life. Some beliefs will support you and some can really block you.
The good news is you can, with work, change your beliefs. Affirmations can really help to build new beliefs that support you, EFT is super powerful for releasing limiting and negative beliefs.
I’ve created a special EFT GUIDE for clearing limiting beliefs Available from my ETSY SHOP
The things you say
Pay close attention to the things that you say both to yourself and other people as this is a clear indication as to what your beliefs are.
If you catch yourself saying something that doesn’t support you, just explore it a bit and work out what the belief behind it is, then work on clearing that belief.
The things you do
Make sure your actions are in alignment with the things you want. For example, if you want to be slim and healthy and then slob out on the sofa all day eating cake, this ACTION is not a match for the thing you want.
If you want to be rich and then go out and spend money that you don’t have putting you into debt, this is not a match for what you want.
A great habit to get into is to state what you want and then ask the Universe to guide you.
Also, ask yourself, what action is a match for attracting what you want?
More law of attraction tips
I’ve written loads on the law of attraction and I try to keep it super simple (so many people over-complicate it) and easy to apply. Check out these posts…
- How To Use The Law Of Attraction
- 3 powerful law of attraction exercises – Attract the life you want
- 5 Law of Attraction Tips To Attract The Life You Want
- Law of attraction Top Tips with pdf download
- 3 Law of Attraction Questions To Ask Yourself
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